Monday, December 17, 2012

Reality check

So it's nap time at the day care, and I'm sitting here rubbing one of the little guys on the back, looking at the days of the week chart when it hits me: I only have two days left at the day care.

I'm so incredibly sad about that! It's only Tuesday, but we don't work Fridays, and technically I'm not even at placement for an entire days worth of work. All of these kids are incredibly sweet and the two weeks just seems like enough to really start to form the bonds with the kids, and then basically have to go.

One thing I can say about this trip is that I think it's finally turned me into a kid person. Before, while not HATING children, I certainly didn't see the appeal. Now, I find myself not wanting to leave and wishing I could just stay longer and spend more time with them.

Each day, a new child opens up to me, and we play and chase each other around the playground. Add on top of that the kids who have already determined I'm alright, and it's just so much fun.


(Horrible one of me but that's to be expected at this point.)

I've been telling mom about the kids each evening and talking about how cute and adorable they are, and she told me not to come home with one, lol. In the past, that never would have even needed to be uttered! But now, I finally see the appeal. I can understand why people would want children, especially when they can be this sweet.

That being said, I certainly won't have any for a while, but now it at least makes sense to me. Thanks, Thailand.


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Anything goes school of fighting

So today was my first day back at placement, and I was really excited and happy to see all the kids. Many I recognized, with I think only one new face (new to me, not the day care.) Several of the children came running over to hold my hand or hang on me in some form or fashion, and any time I took a seat there was always some child clamoring on into my lap.

I didn't lead any activities today due to my throat, but I think all the laughing made up for the lack of talking. I spent a lot of time today playing with several of the little boys in the day care.

One thing that has interested me from day one has been the fact that there are multiple toy guns at the facility. I have no issue with guns and find that proper training and knowledge can go a long way, but I was caught off guard by how "realistic" the guns look. All toy guns in America look the part, with something about them being overly cheesy or neon orange. None of these guns have that look, so it's interesting to me to see this little group of boys running around with the guns and playing.

None of them are doing anything mean or with malicious intent, it's all good play, but I guess the visual, especially in the wake of the recent shootings in Connecticut, is odd to me. Plus I'm surprised at some of the mannerisms that the kids are displaying. One kid totally secured the gun in the back strap of his pants line, and then tucked his shirt over it to conceal the gun so he could hide it from the other kids. I was just like "oh my god, that kids packing."

The boys are all total sweethearts however, and I ran around the playground playing with them for the majority of my day. We also played this game where I was on one end of the playground, the kids lined up on the other, and they'd all run at me and tackle me and hug me.

I'd do various things while they were running my way, ranging from Gangnam style end pose, football shuffle, ballet, or dancing to Fantastic Baby. The kids all loved the game and we played several rounds.

After placement, we learned the basics of Thai massage for the head, shoulders, upper body, back and legs. ....I feel like I just covered the whole body, but it's very point specific. It was cool, and frankly doubled as a martial arts lesson considering a lot of these were key pressure points. (Or sure felt like some when applied with the right pressure.). I feel better prepared now in the case of an attack.

Should anyone decide to physically assault me, I can and will give you a very bad Thai massage. I've got the knowledge. Sort of. I know how to use it. ...for the most part.

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In which I have man-voice

So my throat has been itching for nearly my entire stay in Thailand. It could be from any number of causes, but one of the volunteers showed up with a congested nose and scratchy throat and now three of us do. She may not actually be the source, but were pretty much all joking with her and saying she is.

Regardless of the cause, it got really red and swollen one night, painful and sore all through the next day, irritating for the following two, and now I have total man-voice up in here.

My voice is super soft right now, but all scratchy and croaky and I just feel like a total chain smoker. I thought it'd get better but my voice is getting softer and softer, which now that I think about it might actually BE better.*No*sound might be preferable to how I do sound, lol. I love the thought of the higher power being all "oooooo, lets just....turn that down for the moment, shall we? Theeeeere we go, yes. Much better."

I love that I flew to Thailand to get a cold.

If there's anything worth doing-- this is not it. The cold is so funny because its such a basic ailment that no one takes it seriously, and yet it can really make you feel like you've just been hit by a truck. In my case, it hit me right in the face.

It's not a total KO though, but I have no wish in jinxing myself by talking about my small victories as of yet.

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Sunday, December 16, 2012

JJ Market, Night Market, Christmas shopping: Check.

So today was a relaxed sort of day, in a vague sort of way.  We all arrived here needing to do the basic tourist shopping, but combine that with the need to get Christmas gifts, and you've got four girls who have been inquiring about the best places to get a deal. The end result was JJ Market and Asiatique, the Night Market.

After yesterday, all the other girls decided that they would use today for sleeping in, which made sense as it is literally the only day for our entire placement here that that would even be an option.  Naturally, I woke up at six.  Curses. 

Or so I thought.

I actually spent the morning chatting with my mom, and my older brother, so that was nice as there was no stress, I just wandered and enjoyed the perks of modern technology in the form of face time. I had initially meant to nurse my throat, as I woke up this morning sounding like a frog/chain smoker...a chain smoking frog, but after my first glass of water I decided I wanted to talk to my family, so there went that idea.  Oh well.  It was worth it.

Around 10:30 - 11, maybe even 12, everyone else slowly woke up and rolled on out of bed.  It was a lazy sort of Sunday morning, which was nice because no one felt rushed.  We ended up leaving maybe around 1 - 1:30, and had a fun little taxi ride over with a younger taxi driver.  We all tried to communicate, driver included, and that was enjoyable.  The drivers all seem amused at our poor attempts, but we try, and they try back in English, and it ends up as a lot of laughing and repeating after one another.

So then we arrive. JJ Market, the myth, the legend: the biggest outdoor market I have ever been in.  For a while, we sort of stick together, getting a feel of what was there, and how the system worked ( ha!) before all splitting up.  We had designated a time and location for when to return, giving ourselves until 4 to reconvene and decide from there.

JJ Market, otherwise known as Chatuchak Weekend Market, is huge.  It covers 35 acres of land, has over 5,000 stalls, and covers everything from tourist trinkets, furniture, candles, fans, musical instruments, clothing, food, animals, bugs, and religious artifacts.  You name it, they have it, and in an assortment of colors.


I really enjoyed wandering from stall to stall for a while, looking at the different clothing options, or the incredible carvings.  True to form, there was food on nearly every corner.  Lots of shops had signs up for "No picture!" so I didn't snap many, but the environment was both exciting and over stimulating. 

When we started out, the weather was listed as being 93, but feeling like 103, so a lot of people were out with freshly packed smoothies, or fruit, coconuts that they would split for you right there. 

JJ Market is all about bargaining as well, and its good to ask around at multiple stalls to get an idea about what a reasonable price would be before you start to bargain.  I did this, as I wasn't sure what the running price on specific items actually would be, but I also learned that if you see something and you love it, buy it, because in a place like that, returning to "that one stall" might not even be an option.  In fact, it may fall under the realm of fairy tale, something you only read about in story books, or see on temple walls.

 I got a couple of Christmas items from this place, and was happy.  I at least got everyone I wanted one thing, so if all else fails, I do have a gift.

At one point however, I wandered into the animal section, and immediately regretted it.  This was the most crowded area of the market that I experienced, and that wasn't really the issue.  A lot of the dogs are in small cages, some open for people to touch the animals, but not all,and I saw a depressing amount of heavy fur dogs like Huskies and Lab pups panting horribly in the heat.  Some shops had the animals inside enclosures, in the air conditioning, which was good, but some...ah...It was hard because I know buying animals from places like that just perpetuates it, but buying them is also the only way to get them out of the situation. I just got really depressed.  I saw a lot of different animals for sale, and again, some in great conditions, some not so much.

Just to list a few of the animals I saw:
Meerkats, Geese, Ducks, Roosters, Squirrels, Sugar Gliders, Fish, Starfish, Dogs of every breed, Hawks, and Groundhogs to name a few.

While working my way out of this area, I came across the often spoke of but as of yet unseen area for me: the bug food stands.  I didn't get to take a picture as I was in this procession of people trying to get out of the way, but I did get a good look at a stand that had HUGE cockroaches mixed in with something else, it looked like cooked larva.  I also saw lots of live worms and larva wiggling about, either for fish or for people, you decide.  I really wanted to snap a photo but I didn't want to be "that person" either, holding up the endless amount of people behind me just trying to get down the row.

We all met up at the appointed time some how, talked about our experiences, and then hopped a taxi back to the home base for some dinner and a quick break.  The heat had taken its toll on a few of us and the break was just nice.  Jill and I had discussed going to the Night Market to fill in any gaps from our shopping, and both Sara and Victoria decided they'd come as well, as we were all missing certain items.

After dinner and dumping our purchases, we hailed another taxi and off we went!  This market was a bit further from home base, but nothing horrible.  The night market starts around 5 from what I understand, and goes to midnight.  While more expensive, even in bargaining, this market is MUCH better organized and has less of an open area feel and more of what i'd call an "outlet" feel.


That being said, do not go here for 'outlet' prices.  It is simply well run, with live music along the main walk way, a Ferris wheel on the right corner, and actual restaurants replacing the much less formal food stalls. 

Again, I recommend meandering your way through, inquiring about prices, and then deciding.  I had a much easier time mentally mapping this area than I had with JJ Market for a first timer, and was able to retrace my steps to return and purchase items I decided on.  That being said, the ONE item I've been searching for since I got here I missed.  I saw it, went to exchange money so I'd have enough, and then promptly never found the shop again.  Blast!

I did get a milk boba tea though, which I happily drank while waiting on the others.  After everyone arrived, they decided they'd like a beer so we all sat at this interesting little shop/bar/thing and had a drink.  I had water, they had beer, and we chatted about our finds and plans for the week.  I was happy.


Saturday, December 15, 2012

Culture Shock: I finally get me some o'dat.

So the subject of 'culture shock' has been brought up a couple of times since I've been here, and I've actually spent a while thinking about it, wondering if it was something I've ever experienced myself.

While I've come across things that are different, obviously, there hasn't been anything that's just had me so bowled over that I couldn't believe it.

When I think of culture shock, I think of the people who just can't overcome the differences, or people who get irritated and upset easily at the little things that are different from their normal.

While I didn't experience something that just sent me over the edge today, I certainly experienced something that will make my list of "well that was a whole new case of wtf." Culture shock to me is experiencing something you will never accept about a new country, something you can never make a part of your norm.

Today, I saw this kid, easily 3 or 4, running around the area prior to us boarding the rafts. Upon our arrival, I came across him again as I climbed the hill to return to the top. He smiled at me, then tilted his head back far enough for me to see that what I had mistaken for a lollipop was actually a cigarette.

Me," uh, pretty sure you're not supposed to have that in your mouth--"

And he runs off towards this older man, the guy driving our van for this excursion actually, and instead of pulling it out of his mouth, home boy whips out a lighter and lights it up for the kid. The kid then took a drag, and ran off; a child on a nicotine high.

I couldn't believe I had just seen that.



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Adventure time: Kanchanaburi

Today has been big. I've waded through waterfalls, hiked mountains, rode on the heads of elephants and relaxed on bamboo rafts as we glided past alligators basking on the bank.

Lets back up:
The waterfalls


We started today at the waterfalls, a grouping of seven major falls that are accessible by hiking. Even though the seven big ones are the highlighted stops, there are countless smaller ones along the hike.  Some are open to swim in, some are just to look at, all are incredibly beautiful.If you hike from first fall to the top one, not stopping to take photos, it supposedly takes an hour up, and an hour down.  I wanted to hike to the top most one to see them, but since we had something of a time limit, I just meandered through them, stopping at the ones I was interested in for photos, looking at the tourists at the other ones, and just enjoying the nature. 
One fall was pretty cool because the rocks actually served as slides for people who braved it, sending them sliding down into the clear pool beneath.  I saw this one guy who started to go, then backed out and ended up holding onto the rock on his stomach all spread eagle as he struggled to stop himself and crawl back up.  A lot of people were laughing, and as he finally righted himself, this older woman came past him, sat down, and just slid right off the rock like a pro.  He watched her all astonished, gathered his courage, and went screaming down the rock, lol.  It was pretty fun to watch.

The water felt AMAZING, and was just this clear turquoise blue. As I waded around out through the water, little fish would come up and start sucking on your feet. It feels insanely odd, but a lot of people will pay to have it done. Fish massage, they call it. The fishes are actually eating your dead skin. Yummy!

I was hiking up to one of the falls when I saw a smaller path, not quite so visible but still definitely a path. So I decided to follow it down and I am so glad I did.

I came to this private set of falls, no other tourist around, and perfectly suited for swimming/wading around in.  You have to step around a few tree roots, but thats nothing, and for some private waterfall action it was something i'd gladly do again.  If I was a local, this spot would be such a huge part of my weekends, I can't even begin to tell you.

The Elephant Ride:
After the waterfalls, we worked our way down to the elephants, which were about 45 minutes away. Once there, we bought some bananas to feed them while we waited. I fed the baby.

Sarah and Victoria were on an elephant together, while Jill and I took another. We actually got the person I had wanted, this extremely cute and knowledgable guide:


If she looks like she's 6, it's because she probably is. I had been watching her sitting atop the elephant earlier, just eating a Popsicle while she waited. I asked her her name in Thai, as well as introduced myself. Her name is Ahm, and she then pointed out her papa to us, who was guiding the elephant behind us.

It was pretty funny because Jill was very much unsure of what the safety of this whole operation was. With each tilt of the seat, she would go "mm. Okay. Alright."

Our child driver clamored down off the elephant to take our photos at a certain point, and it was really cute to see her go into full photographer mode. It was also fun for me to climb down the back of elephant and sit on her neck.

The elephants were everything you expect them to be, but there's something about the setting that just really makes the difference.


Ahm pulled flowers out of a tree and gave them to us, and they were super pretty. Once the ride was done, I tipped her for her help and watched as she ran off to buy another Popsicle.  While getting to know the adults on this trip has been fun, its really the children i've been meeting who are giving me some real memories.

Bamboo raft:

This kinda made me really excited. The raft was literally bamboo shoots tied together with a man in the front and on the back paddling the boat.


Some sections were under a thin layer of water, with places to sit on the raft. We passed one of the elephants bathing in the river, which was cool to see. I spent the majority of my time shifting and walking around the raft to see the views, all of which were incredible.  We rounded the bend on this raft, and the mountains were just stretched out in the distance, with banana trees and various palms spotting the banks.  Once I sat down I got some fun pictures.

On our way up the river, the kid of one of the men was enjoying the back current created by the raft.

The man saw me smiling and watching the kid and nodded a hello. I nodded back before basically doing the same thing the child was doing because, lets face it, it was cool. Then I hear the man going, "hello, hello!" So I look up from my play time and he points to the bank. Under the shade of some strangler tree roots, camouflaged amongst the shadows, was a crocodile. Or maybe an alligator. I can't be sure but I will look it up.

I was surprised and just started laughing, and thanked him for pointing him out to me. I had asked while in Cambodia if they had alligators or not, as I saw some amongst the carvings. One might figure that if they're in the carvings then obviously they have them, yeah? But they also have half man half demons carved on the walls so. Now I at least know for certain they are in Thailand, which puts Cambodia not too far out of question. (Edit:
Siamese crocodile (Crocodylus siamensis) is a freshwater crocodile native to Indonesia (Borneo and possibly Java), Brunei, East Malaysia, Laos, Cambodia, Burma, Thailand, and Vietnam. The species is critically endangered and already extirpated from many regions.)

Lastly, Death Railway and the cave temple.

Back during WW2, multitudes of people died while being forced to build this railway. Inside the caves close to the rails, sick and dying prisoners used to be left to their fate. After the war, the Thai people put a statue of the Buddha in the cave to remember the people, and to bring luck to the place instead of all the death that had surrounded it for so long.


While waiting on the train, I watched this whole village of people strip off their clothes and just run screaming and laughing into the river. They all seemed pretty happy.

We rode the train for about 20 minutes or so, past a few stations and farm fields.


Victoria and I stood in the back near one of the windows so we could see the fields.


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The River Kwai

So today we spent in Kanchanaburi, an area about two, two and a half hours west of Bangkok.

We came down last night in a private van, owned by Benz's family. The van ride was mostly in silence as each of us drifted off into our own little worlds, be it thoughts, books, music, or some combination of those. I myself listened to my iPod for the first time since I left the states and actually felt kind of peaceful.

We stayed at the River Kwai resort, booked by the lovely Mrs. Jill.


It had a lovely Christmas tree and gingerbread house just inside the entrance.


Jill and Sarah shared a room, while Victoria and I stayed together in the adjoining room.





We had a dinner and show out on this floating dock. The dinner was great; buffet style with all sorts of options. The napkins were mad starched though, which I figured if the dock should sink for whatever reason I could probably throw it in the water and climb on board like a raft or something.

The show was probably one of the weirder things I've ever spent money on. It was basically an reenactment of the story/events of the River Kwai, with the forced labor and revolts of the POWs from WW2. There were a lot of explosions, fireworks and lights, and if you have good eye sight may have been amazing. It was obvious a lot of time and effort went into it. I myself had a hard time fully enjoying it due to the sheer distance we were from the action.

Sleeping was difficult for a little while due to the volume of various events they had going on around the hotel, but I think I was tired enough that it just didn't matter. So now it's been proven, I can sleep through multiple explosions.








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